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Monday, January 12, 2009

Maya Angelou's Best Poem Ever

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...
enough money within her control to move out
and rent a place of her own,
even if she never wants to or needs to...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....
something perfect to wear if the employer,
or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ..
a youth she's content to leave behind....

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...
a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to
retelling it in her old age....

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .....
a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....
one friend who always makes her laugh... and one who lets her cry...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....
a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...
eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems,
and a recipe for a meal,
that will make her guests feel honored...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ..
a feeling of control over her destiny...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
how to fall in love without losing herself..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
how to quit a job,
break up with a lover,
and confront a friend without;
ruining the friendship....

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW....
when to try harder... and WHEN TO WALK AWAY...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
that she can't change the length of her calves,
the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
that her childhood may not have been perfect...but it's over...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
what she would and wouldn't do for love or more...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
how to live alone... even if she doesn't like it...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.. .
whom she can trust,
whom she can't,
and why she shouldn't take it personally...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
where to go...
be it to her best friend's kitchen table..
or a charming Inn in the woods...
when her soul needs soothing...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
What she can and can't accomplish in a day...
a month...and a year...

GOOD FRIENDS ARE LIKE STARS.

YOU DON'T ALWAYS SEE THEM,

BUT YOU ALWAYS KNOW THEY ARE THERE!!!!!!

12 comments:

david mcmahon said...

Wonderful post, Sylvia

bobbie said...

Thanks for reminding us of this one. Thanks for reminding us of Maya
Angelou! She is a great lady. One of my personal heroes.

Anonymous said...

Sylvia, I feel blessed are those women who have all and know all but only few are born with these traits and for few more life teaches them the hard way but there are many who are ignorant of what to have and what to know and suffer throughout. Have a gr8 day,

Swarna said...

I could read that again and again, and the music matched the mood.

magiceye said...

bravo! well said as always!

Great Grandma Lin said...

i always enjoy her thoughts and poems.

Judy said...

I agree this is one of her best poems. I remember sending this to my daughters. She is such a great person. Thanks for reminding us.

Anonymous said...

I hadn't seen that one before, many thanks for posting it!!

Mamapippa ... said...

I strongly agree with you !
This is a nice post, I had fun reading it.
Bye !

Darlene said...

Maya was so wise and this poem says it all. I am sending it to my daughter who is learning much of this the hard way. Thank you for posting it.

soulbrush said...

oh isn't this wonderful, makes me wanna give a huge shout of hurray...to be a woman.

Mare said...

HOW TRUE THIS IS! It is far from a reality for many, many women.

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