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Friday, July 10, 2009

Looking Back - Part 9 - Adventures on the Road

By late 1971 we had four children ages five, three, two and a half and six months and needless to say I had my hands full. Fortunately, they were all very good kids and well behaved. My first daughter was the epitome of the perfect child from the day she was born and I naturally assumed it was all due to my marvelous parenting. Then my second daughter was born and while she was (and is) beautiful and funny, she was also a holy terror whose greatest pleasure was derived from tormenting her older sister. So much for being the perfect parent. The two boys came later and they were pretty much kept in line by both of their sisters.

By that time we were living in Montana. As you know, my husband was in the Air Force and he was stationed at Malmstrom AFB in Great Falls, Montana once we returned from Europe. He got a month leave every year and while most of our neighbors took a week here and a week there during the year, my husband would save all of his until summer and then we’d travel for a month. We had purchased a small camping trailer a couple of years earlier and it had worked quite well. Still, traveling with four kids in the back of a station wagon – even with a trailer was not conducive to making long trips. And so following fall my husband took the trailer to Dallas and my father sold it for us.

Then just as we were beginning to wonder what our next travel solution might be, my father called to tell us about an ad that he had found in the Sunday Dallas Morning News and that he had checked out. It seems that an oil man in Dallas had purchased a brand new, large, customized Winnebago and had an employee deliver it to him from the Winnebago factory. He planned to use it as his office in the field. He had it two days and died of a heart attack. His family was quite wealthy and no one was interested in having a Winnebago, they just wanted to settle his estate and move on. My father felt that the price they were asking was too unbelievable to pass up. We agreed and arranged for the loan at the bank and my father handled it from there. It was winter and we weren’t going to be able to travel for several months so my father and mother said that they would keep it at their house until spring, at which time they would drive it to Montana. It was the beginning of some wonderful times on the road and was the absolute perfect way to travel with the four kids and the dog and the cat! It had a full bedroom in the back, a bath with a shower, lots of storage room, a kitchen with cabinets, sink and a stove, with an eye level oven and a fridge. The couch made a double bed; there was a double bunk over the driver and passenger seats. There was a comfortable chair in the living room area, a pull out dining table. It had a built in vacuum system and just in case traveling became a little too overwhelming, there was a built in liquor cabinet. Looking back in light of the motor homes they have today, it was crude at best, but back then it was a castle on wheels!

As the children got older we decided to try and make our month long travels educational as well as fun. We thought with all the historical sites within easy traveling distance we could perhaps liven up history and help make it come alive for them. So, we chose sites, found books about them to read along the way. The day school was out we would hit the road.

One of the most interesting trips was one in which we pretty much followed the path of the Nez Perce Indians as they had tried so desperately to escape the military troops who were determined to either kill them or get them back onto the land that had been assigned to them in the Treaty of 1863. Nez Perce country in the Northwest included the territory where Washington, Oregon, and Idaho join together. But when the Treaty of 1863 decreased their lands to one-tenth its original size, some of the Nez Perce bands refused to agree and became known as “non-treaty” Nez Perce. Among them were Joseph and his band, who were located in the Wallowa Valley in Oregon. In 1877, a number of young warriors from Joseph’s band attacked settlements of people who had earlier killed members of their family. When the U.S. Army was sent to make a show of force, the Nez Perce drove them back, and the Nez Perce War of 1877 began.

Fearing retaliation, the non-treaty Nez Perce fled their homelands. They walked or rode, but whatever, just kept moving in any way they could in order to reach safety. They initially hoped the Crow Indians, their hunting partners on the Plains, would give them shelter once they crossed the Rocky Mountains. When the Crows instead attacked them and stole horses, the last chance for the Nez Perce was flight into Canada where they might live with Sitting Bull’s Sioux.

Traveling over 1,500 miles, through what would become the four states of Oregon, Idaho, Wyoming, and finally Montana, the fugitive Nez Perce kept moving – they were determined to reach safety for themselves and their families. Their long journey took them through the newly established Yellowstone National Park where they encountered several groups of tourists. The journey lasted more than three months, across mountains, rivers, and prairies.

As we followed their trail, we would spend the evenings reading to the kids about the next step in the Nez Perce's journey. When we finally reached the Bear Paw along the Montana Canadian border where the last battle was fought, we were on that last leg of our trip as well. It was late when we arrived that first night and in the dark you would swear that you could hear the ghosts of those who had died there. We would find ourselves almost whispering as we wondered and talked about what Chief Joseph's thoughts were. At that time it was a very remote, rugged and somewhat sad place. Early the next morning we walked over the site. At that time there were still holes to be seen where both soldiers and Indians had dug in with the hopes of avoiding bullets. It had the same eerie feeling that you get at the Custer Battlefield where you would swear you can hear the sounds of the battle still raging. Somehow you can feel the history and it makes an impression that books alone could never achieve.

I feel that those trips were among the best things we ever did for our kids and we all still have wonderful memories of those times. Memories that I know none of us will forget.

16 comments:

Roshni said...

I still have dreams of travelling like that! I hope we can also get a windfall like you did!!

Vicki ~ FL said...

What a wonderful history lesson for your children and a fun way in which to learn it.

bobbie said...

Truly amazing, Sylvia. What wonderful memories for your children.

Janie said...

Following the trail of those Native Americans through the northwest must have been a wonderful experience for adults and children alike. I'd love to do that!

Anonymous said...

i love this post! I have a collection of black and white photos of various Native Americans, one of my favourites is a handsome young Nez Perce man, I remember the minute I saw his face I felt like I knew him. I loved hearing the story of their run for freedom and how you followed their trail.
Thanks for sharing the flashback :)

The Retired One said...

We camped with our girls every chance we got when they were growing up.
They are grown now and remember those times fondly. It was great family time...there were no cellphones then and no electricity in half the places we went...so we swam, hiked, read and played board games...had fun together~!

Anonymous said...

You sure know how to make history come alive, Sylvia. Your kids were lucky to have you as their mother. Still are. I wish my parents took us traveling, but money was scarce back then. I didn't leave Hawaii till the year I graduated from college. It took me 7 years to circle the globe!

kenju said...

The trips were wonderful for the children. You never know how much they will learn and remember from their travels, but I have noticed our kids talking about things we did when they were children and it all comes back.

Kay said...

Wow! That's fabulous, Sylvia. What a wonderful learning experience that was for the kids. It wasn't just educational but such a bonding time for all of you.

Maithri said...

My dear friend,

You are a great soul who has lived and continues to live such a rich and wonderful life,

I am blessed to know you and call you my friend,

Maithri

Ramakrishnan said...

That was an exciting travel cum education trip for the children. Both you & your husband are to be commended for taking such extraordiary efforts to plan & implement such an exhaustive journey.
It was very informative for me too - I have never heard of Nez Perce Idians.They must have been a fierce & proud tribe !
I thoroughly enjoyed reading this post.

Have a great Day. Ram

Ugich Konitari said...

Sylvia, what a great post ! I almost felt like I was along with you for the trip....and it is such a great way to learn history and geography together !

magiceye said...

a beautiful post indeed! no wonder it is said that travel makes one wiser.

Regina said...

Thanks for sharing your wonderful experienced. I'll be reading it again.

Have a nice weekend.
Regina

Indrani said...

Yes, unforgettable really.
So well remembered and related.

Linda Reeder said...

I'm finally catching up. I don't want to miss a chapter of your amazing life story.
Informed travel is so much more meaningful than just going places. We always study up before we travel. Our kids learned to ride with maps on thier laps. They are both excellent trip planners now, too.

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